Marriage

Congratulations on Your Engagement!

We’re so glad that you’ve chosen to marry in the Catholic Church. We are privileged to accompany you on the Journey of Your Love, and honored that you have entrusted us with equipping you to traverse both the joys and the inevitable challenges that married life brings. Our great joy, above all, is to assist you in encountering Christ’s love and its power to nourish and transform relationships.

Fr. Jay

The Marriage Preparation Process

1 (1) MEET WITH CLERGY
Please call the parish office and schedule your first meeting with a clergy (priest or deacon), who may also serve as the celebrant for your wedding.

 

1 (2)636643431854405785 TAKE THE FOCCUS INVENTORY
FOCCUS (Facilitate Open Caring Communication Understanding & Study) encourages couples to discuss a broad range of topics that can help them learn communication and conflict resolution skills. Provided to couples at the parish or online.

 

1 (5) CHOOSE A MENTOR COUPLE AND BEGIN THE MENTORING PROCESS
St. Pius X adopts Witness to Love as a way of guiding the couple-to-couple relationship. Couples will choose a mentor couple who can support, encourage, and pray for them throughout—and beyond— the marriage preparation process. The Marriage and Family Life Coordinator can help engaged couples select a mentor couple.

 

Witness to Love

Witness to Love is a virtue- and growthbased model of marriage renewal and preparation that integrates modern principles of psychology and the virtues to help couples facilitate an authentic dialogue about their relationship.

WHAT MAKES WITNESS TO LOVE DIFFERENT?

What makes Witness to Love unique is that the engaged couples choose their own mentor couple. This is a couple they both admire and see as a source of faith formation. This mentor couple gives them a concrete connection and integration into the parish. Through the sharing of the mentor couples’ own Journey of Love, the engaged couple inherits a “lifeline“ of support in their commitment to Jesus and His Church.

 

1 (4) FAITH FORMATION/CATECHESIS
1) Attend Celebrating Your Love: A Diocesan Retreat Day
A one-day retreat held on Saturdays at locations throughout the Diocese. The program presents a summary of Catholic teaching on marriage and an overview of life skills essential for marriage.
Go to sdcatholic.org/JOYL for dates and registration.

 

Celebrating Your Love: A Diocesan Retreat Day

Celebrating Your Love (Pre-Cana) is a Saturday retreat for engaged couples from around the Diocese to learn more about what makes Catholic marriage unique and how to renew their vows daily after the wedding ceremony.

 AGENDA

Check-In & Refreshments
Welcome & Introductions
Created for Love: Before 'I Do'
Sacrament in Service to Communion: Saying 'I Do'
Marriage as a Process of Growth: Continuing the 'I Do'
Lunch
Q & A Panel Discussion
Afternoon Workshops:
(i.e. Ecumenical/Interfaith Marriage, Military Families, Practical Marriage Skills, Multicultural Families, Raising Children of Faith)
 
Note: The Engaged Encounter Weekend is a wonderful retreat experience of presentations and personal sharing related to marriage. It is an option for couples who, for practical or pastoral reasons, are not involved in the mentoring process. For dates and registration, go to engagedencountersd.org.

              

For more information, contact the Marriage and Family Life Coordinator

 

Getting Married Catholic

The Catholic Church has a long history of helping couples to prepare for marriage. It has learned a great deal that can benefit any couple, regardless of religion.

Because the Catholic Church wants couples to form strong, lasting marriages, couples who wish to marry in the Catholic Church are asked to take at least six months to intensively prepare for your marriage. This goes beyond choosing a date and church, reserving a place for the reception, and picking out dresses. It means using this time to delve more deeply into your relationship and approach this momentous day with prayer and reflection.

Most importantly at the time of your engagement, the Church welcomes you to this sacrament of Marriage in the spirit of Jesus who said, "This is my commandment: love one another as I love you. No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends." (John 15:12-13)

"A wedding is day, a marriage is a lifetime."